6 Signs your in a Toxic relationship

Toxic relationships can occur with anyone, including friends, family, and partners. Being in such a relationship can be extremely draining and may gradually erode your self-esteem.

It is crucial to recognise the signs of a toxic relationship and discuss them with someone you trust. This can help you safely distance yourself from the individual or seek assistance for the relationship, which might involve counseling. Often, the person exhibiting toxic behaviour may not be aware of it, as it is frequently learned behaviour, and their own insecurities may be projected onto you.

• Feeling as though you are walking on eggshells, uncertain of their mood.

• Inability to express your feelings, as they disregard your emotions.

• Receiving criticism for nearly everything you do.

• Being blamed for all problems, regardless of the circumstances.

• Receiving affection only when it is convenient for them.

• Having your mistakes or any favors they have done for you constantly brought up.

How many of these behaviors do you recognize? It can be alarming to see the reality so clearly!

Remember, you have options.

• Consider ending or distancing yourself from the relationship.

• Write a letter to the person, which may reduce their defensiveness and allow them time for reflection.

• Confront them with a friend present for support, but only if you feel safe doing so.

• Arrange counselling for both parties.

Whatever decision you make should be the right one for you. It is not beneficial to be gradually worn down by someone or to remain in a one-sided friendship.

Remember, you are valuable, and this situation is not your fault. People will come and go from your life; do not force anyone to stay.

Love & light,

Tina